I don’t think anyone willingly sets out to ruin their marriage. If you plan to set out to ruin your marriage then make sure you do all of the ones below! If you are wanting to heal your relationship and are doing any of the following things you need to stop because you are harming your marriage. Read them and see if they apply to your relationship.
1. Control or abuse your spouse. Saying who or what they can do is very controlling. Be a partner in your money relationship and your marriage. If you are the only one controlling the money then you need to let the other person handle the finances for a while.
2. Define your relationship with jealousy and insecurity. If you are constantly checking your spouse’s facebook or phone and must know where they are at all times you are being jealous and insecure.
3. Lie and deceive your partner about money. Partners know about how to share what the money is spent on and the money is spent together.
4. Involve your in laws inappropriately. Do not run to them and tell them about your fights. When they hear only bad stuff they are not going to be there when you make up and everything works out. They only see what you’ve chosen to show them. Tell them all about your good days with your spouse.
5. Fail to be a united parenting front. You have to be on the same page when you are raising the children. If one parent says no to a snack the other parent needs to uphold that parental decision.
6. Do you ignore your spouses intimacy and sexual needs? Ignoring your partners needs is a sure way to make sure you injure your relationship. Make sure you take the time to spend time together and nurture the relationship.
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